09.30.2008, 01:22 PM | #1 |
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Readily participates in things affording excitement or stimulation. Wants to feel exhilarated. Pedro's Stress Sources Wants to overcome a feeling of emptiness and to bridge the gap which he feels separates himself from others. Anxious to experience life in all its aspects, to explore all its possibilities, and to live it to the fullest. He therefore resents any restriction or limitation being imposed on him and insists on being free and unhampered. Pedro's Restrained Characteristics Remains emotionally unattached even when involved in a close relationship. Feels that he cannot do much about his existing problems and difficulties and that he must make the best of things as they are. Able to achieve satisfaction from sexual activity. Pedro's Desired Objective Needs a change in his circumstances or in his relationships which will permit relief from stress. Seeking a solution which will open up new and better possibilities and allow hopes to be fulfilled. Pedro's Actual Problem Feels restricted and prevented from progressing; seeking a solution which will remove these limitations Pedro's Actual Problem #2 The fear that he may be prevented from achieving the things he wants leads him into a relentless search for satisfaction in the pursuit of illusory or meaningless activities. |
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09.30.2008, 01:23 PM | #2 |
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I like how I have not one, but TWO, actual problems
p.s. You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to terriblecanyons again. |
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09.30.2008, 01:25 PM | #3 |
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The situation is difficult and he is trying to persist in his objectives against resistance. Finds it necessary to conceal his intentions as an added precaution, in order to disarm the opposition. Your Stress Sources Eager to make a good impression, but worried and doubtful about the likelihood of succeeding. Feels that he has a right to anything he might hope for, and becomes helpless and distressed when circumstances go against him. Finds the mere possibility of failure most upsetting and this can even lead to nervous prostration. Sees himself as a 'victim' who has been misled and abused, mistakes this dramatization for reality and tries to convince himself that his failure to achieve standing and recognition is the fault of others. Your Restrained Characteristics Becomes distressed when his needs or desires are misunderstood and feels that he has no one to turn to or rely on. Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense. Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense. Able to obtain physical satisfaction from sexual activity but tends to hold aloof emotionally. Your Desired Objective Urgently in need of rest, relaxation, peace, and affectionate understanding. Feels he has been treated with a lack of consideration and is upset and agitated as a result. Regards his situation as intolerable as long as his requirements are not complied with. Your Actual Problem Disappointment at the non-fulfillment of his hopes and the fear that to formulate fresh goals will only lead to further setbacks have resulted in considerable anxiety. He is trying to escape from this into a peaceful and harmonious relationship, protecting him from dissatisfaction and lack of appreciation. Your Actual Problem #2 Depleted vitality has created an intolerance for any further stimulation, or demands on his resources. A feeling of powerlessness subjects him to agitation and acute distress. Tries to escape from this by relinquishing the struggle, and by finding peaceful and restful conditions in which to recuperate in an atmosphere of affection and security. |
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09.30.2008, 01:31 PM | #4 |
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Here be mine:
Your Existing Situation The existing situation contains critical or dangerous elements for which it is imperative that some solution be found. This may lead to sudden, even reckless, decisions. Self-willed and rejects any advice from others. Your stress sources Has an unsatisfied need to ally himself with others whose standards are as high as his own, and to stand out from the herd. This desire for preeminence isolates him and inhibits his readiness to give himself freely. While he wants to surrender and let himself go, he regards this as a weakness which must be resisted. This self-restraint, he feels, will lift him above the rank and file and ensure recognition as a unique and distinctive personality. Your restrained characteristics Willing to participate and to allow himself to become involved, but tries to fend off conflict and disturbance in order to reduce tension.Feels rather isolated and alone, but is too reserved to allow himself to form deep attachments. Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense. Your desired objective Pursues his objectives with intensity and does not allow himself to be deflected from his purpose. Wants to overcome the obstacles with which he is faced and to achieve special recognition and standing from his success. Your actual problem Takes a delight in action and wants to be respected and esteemed for his personal accomplishments.
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09.30.2008, 01:49 PM | #5 | |
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Bleak.
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09.30.2008, 01:51 PM | #6 |
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Avoids excessive effort and needs ro(B)ots, security, and peaceful companionship Your Stress Sources Eager to make a good impression, but worried and doubtful about the likelihood of succeeding. Feels that he has a right to anything he might hope for, and becomes helpless and distressed when circumstances go against him. Finds the mere possibility of failure most upsetting and this can even lead to nervous prostration. Sees himself as a 'victim' who has been misled and abused, mistakes this dramatization for reality and tries to convince himself that his failure to achieve standing and recognition is the fault of others. ^^^ BIG BAG O' FAIL IMO. I'm no victim. Your Restrained Characteristics Conditions are such that he will not let himself become intimately involved without making mental reservations. Your Desired Objective Wants to establish himself and make an impact despite unfavorable circumstances and a general lack of appreciation. ^^^ NO FUCKIN' RESPECT Your Actual Problem Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety. Desires recognition and position, but is worried about his prospects. Reacts to this by protecting at any criticism and resisting any attempt to influence him. Tries to assert himself by meticulous control of detail in an effort to strengthen his position. Your Actual Problem #2 Depleted vitality has created an intolerance for any further stimulation, or demands on his resources. This sense of powerlessness, combined with frustration that he cannot control events, subjects him to agitation, irritation, and acute distress. He tries to escape these by stubborn insistence on his own point of view, but the general condition of helplessness renders this often unsuccessful. Is therefore very sensitive to criticism and quick to take offense. ^^^ YAY MULTI-PROBLEMS FTW. APPARENTLY, WHAT THIS IS TELLING ME IS, I AM SYRFOX. |
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You're aware of the irony in that, right? I just did it again and it still put the word BLEAK in capital letters in front of me, but added something about me being a horny fucker.
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09.30.2008, 01:57 PM | #8 |
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Needs warm companionship, but is intolerant of anything short of special consideration from those close to him. If this is not forthcoming, is liable to shut himself away from them. that's right, bitches. submit to me-- or else...! Your Stress Sources Delights in the tasteful, the gracious, and the sensitive, but maintains his attitude of critical appraisal and refuses to be swept off his feet unless genuineness and integrity can be absolutely vouched for. Therefore keeps a strict and watchful control on his emotional relationships as he must know exactly where he stands. Demands complete sincerity as a protection against his own tendency to be too trusting. did you just imply that my good nature makes me a sucker? Your Restrained Characteristics Willing to become emotionally involved and able to achieve satisfaction through sexual activity.The situation is preventing him from establishing himself, but he feels he must make the best of things as they are. i like fucking. so what's new? Your Desired Objective Seeks success, stimulation, and a life full of experience. Wants to develop freely and to shake off the shackles of self-doubt, to win, and to live intensely. Likes contacts with others and is enthusiastic by nature. Receptive to anything new, modern, or intriguing; has many interests and wants to expand his fields of activity. Optimistic about the future. not bad, little test! Your Actual Problem Wants to act freely and uninhibitedly, but is restrained by his need to have things on a rational, consistent, and clearly-defined basis. oh fuck. so you're saying i'm slightly repressed? well-- maybe. good for the safety of those around me. not sure that's a "problem" if it keeps others alive & me out of jail. |
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09.30.2008, 02:14 PM | #9 |
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This is fairly spot on.
Your Existing Situation Acts in an orderly, methodical, and self-contained manner. Needs the sympathetic understanding of someone who will give him recognition and approval Your Stress Sources The existing situation is disagreeable. Feels lonely and uncertain as he has an unsatisfied need to ally himself with others whose standards are as high as his own, and wants to stand out from the rank and file. This sense of isolation magnifies the need into a compelling urge, all the more upsetting to his self-sufficiency because of the restraint he normally imposes on himself. Since he wants to demonstrate the unique quality of his own character, he tries to suppress this need for others and affects an attitude of unconcerned self-reliance to conceal his fear of inadequacy, treating those who criticize his behavior with contempt. However, beneath this assumption of indifference he really longs for the approval and esteem of others. Your Restrained Characteristics Willing to participate and to allow himself to become involved, but tries to fend off conflict and disturbance in order to reduce tension.Becomes distressed when his needs or desires are misunderstood and feels that he has no one to turn to or rely on. Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense. Your Desired Objective Considers the existing circumstances disagreeable and over-demanding. Refuses to allow anything to influence his point of view. Your Actual Problem Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety, emptiness, and an unadmitted self-contempt. His refusal to admit this leads to his adopting a headstrong and defiant attitude. Your Actual Problem #2 The need for esteem--for the chance to play some outstanding part and make a name for himself--has become imperative. He reacts by insisting on being the center of attention, and refuses to play an impersonal or minor role.
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what does that word mean? I blame color (that's color without the "u", you prick). in fact, I am a color-victim. RACISM at it's finest. |
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09.30.2008, 04:04 PM | #11 |
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>>> Careful to avoid open conflict: absolutely, but that's being WISE not hypocritical or a pussy. Greedrex's Desired Objective
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Greedrex's Actual Problem #2 Has a fear that he might be prevented from achieving the things he wants. This leads him to employ great personal charm in his dealings with others, hoping that this will make it easier for him to reach his objectives. >>> that's true actually. |
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09.30.2008, 04:10 PM | #12 |
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Easily affected by his environment and readily moved by the emotions of others. Seeks congenial relationships and an occupation which will promote them
Your Stress Sourcesfail. Wishes to be independent, unhampered, and free from any limitation or restriction, other than those which he imposes of himself or by his own choice and decision.
Your Restrained Characteristicsmaybe. Willing to become emotionally involved and able to achieve satisfaction through sexual activity.
Your Desired ObjectiveTrying to calm down and unwind after a period of over-agitation which has left him listless and devoid of energy. In need of peace and quiet; becomes irritable if this is denied him. bull. Wants to make a favorable impression and be rewarded as a special personality. Is therefore constantly on the watch to see whether he is succeeding in this and how others are reacting to him; this makes him feel that he is in control. Uses tactics cleverly in order to obtain influence and special recognition. Susceptible to the esthetic or original.
Your Actual Problemlol Seeks to avoid criticism and to prevent restriction of his freedom to act, and to decide for himself by the exercise of great personal charm in his dealings with others.
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Depleted vitality has created an intolerance for any further stimulation, or demands on his resources. This sense of powerlessness, combined with frustration that he cannot control events, subjects him to agitation, irritation, and acute distress. He tries to escape these by stubborn insistence on his own point of view, but the general condition of helplessness renders this often unsuccessful. Is therefore very sensitive to criticism and quick to take offense. |
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it sounds lke a suicide note
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09.30.2008, 05:12 PM | #15 |
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Emma's Existing Situation
Readily participates in things that provide excitement or stimulation. Wants to feel exhilarated Emma's Stress Sources An existing situation or relationship is unsatisfactory, but she feels unable to improve it without willing cooperation. Unwilling to expose her vulnerability and therefore considers it inadvisable to display affection or to be over-demonstrative. She regards the relationship as a depressing tie but, although she wants to be independent and unhampered, she does not want to risk losing anything. All this leads her to react touchily and with impatience, while the urge to 'get away from it all' results in considerable restlessness. The ability to concentrate may suffer. Emma's Restrained Characteristics Willing to participate and to allow herself to become involved, but tries to fend off conflict and disturbance in order to reduce tension. Very exacting in the standards she applies to her choice of a partner and seeking a rather unrealistic perfection in her sex life. Emma's Desired Objective Seeks success. Wants to overcome obstacles and opposition and to make her own decisions. Pursues her objectives single-mindedly and with initiative. Does not want to feel dependent on the good will of others. Emma's Actual Problem Anxiety and restless dissatisfaction, either with circumstances or with unfulfilled emotional requirements, have produced stress. She tries to escape from these by denying their existence, concealing her dissatisfaction behind a proud but illusory claim to self-sufficiency and independence. Emma's Actual Problem #2 Strongly resists outside influence and any interference with her freedom to make her own decisions and plans. Works to establish and strengthen her own position.
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09.30.2008, 05:24 PM | #17 |
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Me: "Readily participates in things that provide excitement or stimulation. Wants to feel exhilarated."
Who is this stranger? |
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09.30.2008, 05:40 PM | #18 |
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^^^ that's bait for for "hot hot hot", I'm sure.
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09.30.2008, 05:40 PM | #19 |
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This board is just a bunch of hotties wanting to get laid then.
pervs. this is disgusting. |
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09.30.2008, 05:49 PM | #20 |
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