My Boyfriend and I Broke Up (Sort Of)

SynthethicalY · 05.07.2007, 10:17 AM

Yeah, we talked yesterday, and we broke up, after a complete meltdown I had. I told him I was attracted to some other guy. I never seen him so hurt, and I think I should have kept my mouth shut. Oh I feel elated yet sad. But we are still friends with benefits or whatever you want to call it. Ah I don't know what to feel.

MellySingsDoom · 05.07.2007, 10:19 AM

Well, at least you were honest with him. Hope you're feeling OK.

_slavo_ · 05.07.2007, 10:19 AM

That kind of sucks. Hang in there, mate.

SynthethicalY · 05.07.2007, 10:20 AM

Yeah it will be fine, on saturday we are going to the movies. We still had sex yesterday after we talked. I am just going through so much, I need to figure out what I am really feeling right now.

jico. · 05.07.2007, 10:36 AM

SynthethicalY is gay?

StevOK · 05.07.2007, 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by jico.

SynthethicalY is gay?

Shhhh!!!!

MellySingsDoom · 05.07.2007, 10:42 AM

"Honey, he's not just gay, he's ECSTATIC. Ow!"

ALIEN ANAL · 05.07.2007, 10:42 AM

sorry, i keep thinking synthetic is a women. sorry about that

SynthethicalY · 05.07.2007, 10:43 AM

Originally Posted by jico.
SynthethicalY is gay?

Quote:

Originally Posted by StevOK

Shhhh!!!!

Yeah jico I don't want to know.

lucyrulesok · 05.07.2007, 10:47 AM

Well, things will work themselves out and it was very good of you to be honest with him.

My advice, for what its worth is keep talking. Its the most important thing.

SynthethicalY · 05.07.2007, 10:49 AM

Yeah, I think we would make better friends, than a couple. But my mind is in such a detrimental state that I don't know what's up or down.

jico. · 05.07.2007, 11:04 AM

shhhh!!!!
i'm just joking...

king_buzzo · 05.07.2007, 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by jico.

SynthethicalY is gay?

Gayer than big gay al

jico. · 05.07.2007, 11:08 AM

i dont believe in you. i demand a thread and a poll to see who wins.

Everyneurotic · 05.07.2007, 11:10 AM

i was going to say that it sucks and everything but, you seem to be with the guy still; so the only change is you're going to be allowed to see other guys? weird.

anyway, yeah, i think i know how it feels, this sadness you feel that things will not be the way they were but believe me, from your recent posts, it's for the best that you break up and, well, you might find him a better friend than a boyfriend and you might find someone to bring you more happiness.

SynthethicalY · 05.07.2007, 11:12 AM

Yeah every-e this whole weekend has been weird for me. But yeah he did thank me for being honest with him. I don't really know what our relationship is yet, I mean to define it. All I know is I don't want a boyfriend right now. Just a friend. And he is there, we both realized we don't want to part from each others lives.

Everyneurotic · 05.07.2007, 11:14 AM

best of lucks, man

StevOK · 05.07.2007, 11:31 AM

Speaking from personal experience, going from a relationship to friends with benefits never works out. Or at least that's how it was with me in a straight relationship. My best friend (who is gay) seems to have quite a few former lovers that are now his friends with benefits.

Green Magnesium · 05.07.2007, 11:50 AM

I applaud you for being honest with him Synth... but the fact that you were attracted to another man shouldn't have ended things. Me and my ex weren't afraid to talk about our "desires" with one another. We never acted upon them, but we still talked. Anyway, that's neither here nor there.

You're young... I'm sure you'll go through a few more than this one. And I'm not speaking as someone who is a slut but someone who is practical. It's VERY rare for anyone under 25 to find a meaningful lifelong relationship, it certainly happens, but not frequently.

Don't be so down. Have fun, be safe, be happy.

floatingslowly · 05.07.2007, 11:54 AM

hope it all works out for you Synth-ethical-Y.

you've seemed kind of down lately, maybe this will help solve that (even though it might hurt right now).

best wishes.

05.07.2007, 10:17 AM	#1
SynthethicalY invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,408	Yeah, we talked yesterday, and we broke up, after a complete meltdown I had. I told him I was attracted to some other guy. I never seen him so hurt, and I think I should have kept my mouth shut. Oh I feel elated yet sad. But we are still friends with benefits or whatever you want to call it. Ah I don't know what to feel.
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MellySingsDoom invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 8,662	Well, at least you were honest with him. Hope you're feeling OK. __________________ Snow on Easter Sunday - Jesus Christ in reverse.
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SynthethicalY invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,408	Yeah it will be fine, on saturday we are going to the movies. We still had sex yesterday after we talked. I am just going through so much, I need to figure out what I am really feeling right now.
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05.07.2007, 10:36 AM	#5
jico. expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 1,417	SynthethicalY is gay?
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05.07.2007, 10:42 AM	#7
MellySingsDoom invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 8,662	"Honey, he's not just gay, he's ECSTATIC. Ow!" __________________ Snow on Easter Sunday - Jesus Christ in reverse.
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ALIEN ANAL invito al cielo Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 5,461	sorry, i keep thinking synthetic is a women. sorry about that __________________ www.instagram.com/alienanal
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05.07.2007, 10:47 AM	#10
lucyrulesok 100% Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 770	Well, things will work themselves out and it was very good of you to be honest with him. My advice, for what its worth is keep talking. Its the most important thing. __________________ I think if kissing someone could make them pregnant the last person I kissed would have had their kid by now...
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05.07.2007, 10:49 AM	#11
SynthethicalY invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,408	Yeah, I think we would make better friends, than a couple. But my mind is in such a detrimental state that I don't know what's up or down.
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05.07.2007, 11:04 AM	#12
jico. expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 1,417	shhhh!!!! i'm just joking...
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05.07.2007, 11:08 AM	#14
jico. expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 1,417	i dont believe in you. i demand a thread and a poll to see who wins.
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05.07.2007, 11:10 AM	#15
Everyneurotic invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Mexico Posts: 15,713	i was going to say that it sucks and everything but, you seem to be with the guy still; so the only change is you're going to be allowed to see other guys? weird. anyway, yeah, i think i know how it feels, this sadness you feel that things will not be the way they were but believe me, from your recent posts, it's for the best that you break up and, well, you might find him a better friend than a boyfriend and you might find someone to bring you more happiness. __________________ Richard Clayderman found alive and still bland! Repo Man has all night! Photographic evidence of Monosodic's existance! New Kiddieriot shit after all! Never too late to share fave rex from the year before! David Keenan is a douchebag! Ron Asheton missed!
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05.07.2007, 11:12 AM	#16
SynthethicalY invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,408	Yeah every-e this whole weekend has been weird for me. But yeah he did thank me for being honest with him. I don't really know what our relationship is yet, I mean to define it. All I know is I don't want a boyfriend right now. Just a friend. And he is there, we both realized we don't want to part from each others lives.
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05.07.2007, 11:14 AM	#17
Everyneurotic invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Mexico Posts: 15,713	best of lucks, man __________________ Richard Clayderman found alive and still bland! Repo Man has all night! Photographic evidence of Monosodic's existance! New Kiddieriot shit after all! Never too late to share fave rex from the year before! David Keenan is a douchebag! Ron Asheton missed!
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05.07.2007, 11:31 AM	#18
StevOK expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Henrietta, TX Posts: 2,412	Speaking from personal experience, going from a relationship to friends with benefits never works out. Or at least that's how it was with me in a straight relationship. My best friend (who is gay) seems to have quite a few former lovers that are now his friends with benefits. __________________ Follow me! Soundcloud Tumblr Facebook
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05.07.2007, 11:50 AM	#19
Green Magnesium 100% Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: A House Like a Lotus Posts: 809	I applaud you for being honest with him Synth... but the fact that you were attracted to another man shouldn't have ended things. Me and my ex weren't afraid to talk about our "desires" with one another. We never acted upon them, but we still talked. Anyway, that's neither here nor there. You're young... I'm sure you'll go through a few more than this one. And I'm not speaking as someone who is a slut but someone who is practical. It's VERY rare for anyone under 25 to find a meaningful lifelong relationship, it certainly happens, but not frequently. Don't be so down. Have fun, be safe, be happy.
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05.07.2007, 11:54 AM	#20
floatingslowly invito al cielo Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 21,165	hope it all works out for you Synth-ethical-Y. you've seemed kind of down lately, maybe this will help solve that (even though it might hurt right now). best wishes.
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