Katie KA-BOOM!!

fishmonkey · 11.11.2006, 11:06 AM

When you have a argument/disagreement with your Girlfriend/Boyfriend/Friend/Father/Mother/Sister/Brother/can you see where i'm going with this....

are you the person that maintains calm and rational thinking or, like me are you the person that goes all Ninja.. i.e roaring and screamin like a madman because after all you are in the right?

Alex's Trip · 11.11.2006, 11:24 AM

I get frustrated and lock myself up in my room. But everyone once in a while, I'll be really angry. I won't yell at my parents, but at my sister yes.

Katie KaBoom, from the animaniacs, no?

fishmonkey · 11.11.2006, 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by Alex's Trip

Katie KaBoom, from the animaniacs, no?

yeah, i love her.

ni'k · 11.11.2006, 11:48 AM

both at the same time

nomadicfollower · 11.11.2006, 11:54 AM

I get really mad, but I never really show it.

blue sunlover · 11.11.2006, 11:55 AM

oops.ok try to calm down,but you know the penis-tread!

Gulasch Noir · 11.11.2006, 11:57 AM

It depends, but in most cases I am the one, who disputes by means of (does this sound antiquated? i hope so!) rational arguments. This way, it doesn't lead to escalation, which I try to avoid, when disputing with people I actually like. If I have an argument with people I don't like, I also try to stay cool, cause I don't want them to believe, that they have any influence on me.

fishmonkey · 11.11.2006, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Gulasch Noir

It depends, but in most cases I am the one, who disputes by means of (does this sound antiquated? i hope so!) rational arguments. This way, it doesn't lead to escalation, which I try to avoid, when disputing with people I actually like. If I have an argument with people I don't like, I also try to stay cool, cause I don't want them to believe, that they have any influence on me.

this is a good point.

jon boy · 11.11.2006, 12:06 PM

generally i am both. i very rarely blow up or lose my temper. exept with my family who all shout at eachother pretty much all the time. but even then i dont like to raise my voice.

i tend to be very quiet in arguments.

blue sunlover · 11.11.2006, 12:38 PM

most times i think that my point of vue is the better.i want them to take my point of vue,but it doesn t work, and when it works they make me think it was their own idea.argueing excits me so i raise my voice and speak quickly.then people get mad and lose their heads.they end up saying something that hurts me deeply. i annoyed them and i feel sad and guilty.i guess good communication isnt one of my talents.

Hip Priest · 11.11.2006, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Gulasch Noir

...I also try to stay cool, cause I don't want them to believe, that they have any influence on me.

That is the reason I was going to give. I never shout at anyone, because after the thing is over I don't want them to think that they had any influence over me, or that I acted unreasonably. I find the best thing is to be able to remind people, when things have calmed down, that I acted with rationality and dignity. Deflects blame nicely.

I'd also say that if someone is being narky at me for (as I see it) no good reason, I'll give the impression that I'm becoming increasingly amused at their antics.

scott v · 11.11.2006, 01:33 PM

uh...

this all doesn't make any logical sense to me, does this need to be a poll?

!@#$%! · 11.11.2006, 01:35 PM

i'm neither, or both

what i mean is that i am very hotheaded & can get loud & impatient fast, but i don't lose my rationality-- does that make sense? you can feel strongly about something and remain a thinking being.

jon boy · 11.11.2006, 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Hip Priest

That is the reason I was going to give. I never shout at anyone, because after the thing is over I don't want them to think that they had any influence over me, or that I acted unreasonably. I find the best thing is to be able to remind people, when things have calmed down, that I acted with rationality and dignity. Deflects blame nicely.

I'd also say that if someone is being narky at me for (as I see it) no good reason, I'll give the impression that I'm becoming increasingly amused at their antics.

i cannot imagine you angry at all hip priest.

Пятхъдесят Шест · 11.11.2006, 01:37 PM

Well, for the most part I can control my anger, and sometimes this puts me at a disadvantage and I get a lot of grief for being a pacifist. I believe our friend Atari used the word milquetoast to describe me, and he was pretty much dead on.

However, this is subject to change if I've been drinking all night.

Hip Priest · 11.11.2006, 01:39 PM

Thank you jon boy.

!@#$%! · 11.11.2006, 01:39 PM

i could not act like hip priest. the bottled up anger would kill me. i'm in favor of lashing out quickly & effectively...

Пятхъдесят Шест · 11.11.2006, 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!

i could not act like hip priest. the bottled up anger would kill me. i'm in favor of lashing out quickly & effectively...

Spaz!

Everyneurotic · 11.11.2006, 01:40 PM

for the most part, i'm calm; unless i feel i've been wronged.

Hip Priest · 11.11.2006, 01:41 PM

There is a part of being calm and collected that can make you feel quite smug and superior. It winds people up wonderfully.

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11.11.2006, 11:06 AM	#1
fishmonkey invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Ireland Posts: 2,670	When you have a argument/disagreement with your Girlfriend/Boyfriend/Friend/Father/Mother/Sister/Brother/can you see where i'm going with this.... are you the person that maintains calm and rational thinking or, like me are you the person that goes all Ninja.. i.e roaring and screamin like a madman because after all you are in the right? __________________ "Pescescimmia ha grandi bulbi oculari blu, ognuno attaccato su un lato della sua testa, in modo tale da risucire a guardare indietro senza girare la sua testa pesciosa"
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Alex's Trip invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Southern California Posts: 5,608	I get frustrated and lock myself up in my room. But everyone once in a while, I'll be really angry. I won't yell at my parents, but at my sister yes. Katie KaBoom, from the animaniacs, no?
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11.11.2006, 11:48 AM	#4
ni'k invito al cielo Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 3,360	both at the same time
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nomadicfollower invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: North America Posts: 2,672	I get really mad, but I never really show it.
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11.11.2006, 11:55 AM	#6
blue sunlover stalker Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Luxembourg Posts: 506	oops.ok try to calm down,but you know the penis-tread! __________________ aha
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11.11.2006, 11:57 AM	#7
Gulasch Noir the end of the ugly Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Vienna Posts: 862	It depends, but in most cases I am the one, who disputes by means of (does this sound antiquated? i hope so!) rational arguments. This way, it doesn't lead to escalation, which I try to avoid, when disputing with people I actually like. If I have an argument with people I don't like, I also try to stay cool, cause I don't want them to believe, that they have any influence on me.
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jon boy invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: psycho battery Posts: 12,161	generally i am both. i very rarely blow up or lose my temper. exept with my family who all shout at eachother pretty much all the time. but even then i dont like to raise my voice. i tend to be very quiet in arguments. __________________ Sarcasm[A] is stating the opposite of an intended meaning especially in order to sneeringly, slyly, jest or mock a person, situation or thing \|@ <------- Euphoric brain cell just moments before expiration V _ \ / _ PING <-------- moments later / \ http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ljhxq...isruo1_500.gif
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11.11.2006, 12:38 PM	#10
blue sunlover stalker Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Luxembourg Posts: 506	most times i think that my point of vue is the better.i want them to take my point of vue,but it doesn t work, and when it works they make me think it was their own idea.argueing excits me so i raise my voice and speak quickly.then people get mad and lose their heads.they end up saying something that hurts me deeply. i annoyed them and i feel sad and guilty.i guess good communication isnt one of my talents. __________________ aha
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11.11.2006, 01:33 PM	#12
scott v expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Buffalo, NY Posts: 1,484	uh... this all doesn't make any logical sense to me, does this need to be a poll?
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11.11.2006, 01:35 PM	#13
!@#$%! invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: mars attacks Posts: 42,564	i'm neither, or both what i mean is that i am very hotheaded & can get loud & impatient fast, but i don't lose my rationality-- does that make sense? you can feel strongly about something and remain a thinking being.
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11.11.2006, 01:37 PM	#15
Пятхъдесят Шест invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Omaha, Nebraska, USA Posts: 3,063	Well, for the most part I can control my anger, and sometimes this puts me at a disadvantage and I get a lot of grief for being a pacifist. I believe our friend Atari used the word milquetoast to describe me, and he was pretty much dead on. However, this is subject to change if I've been drinking all night.
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11.11.2006, 01:39 PM	#16
Hip Priest invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Birkenhead Posts: 9,397	Thank you jon boy. __________________ Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good. http://www.flickr.com/photos/outsidethecamp/
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Everyneurotic invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Mexico Posts: 15,713	for the most part, i'm calm; unless i feel i've been wronged. __________________ Richard Clayderman found alive and still bland! Repo Man has all night! Photographic evidence of Monosodic's existance! New Kiddieriot shit after all! Never too late to share fave rex from the year before! David Keenan is a douchebag! Ron Asheton missed!
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11.11.2006, 01:41 PM	#20
Hip Priest invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Birkenhead Posts: 9,397	There is a part of being calm and collected that can make you feel quite smug and superior. It winds people up wonderfully. __________________ Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good. http://www.flickr.com/photos/outsidethecamp/
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