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Cantankerous · 03.01.2008, 08:24 PM

not 17.
i feel like i'm fucking finished right now.

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!

yeah cos you know your future already.

i have this friend, used to be my teacher, when she was 17 she went to the gynecologist begging for a hysterectomy.

she lived her life etc. never wanting children, got divorced, then met this guy she was nuts about-- and started thinking differently-- i think her biological clock kicked in, or maybe it was being with this guy that changed her mind. then the guy (now husband) got a terminal disease & she wanted to have his son but that didnt work out.

years later (in her early 40s) she met another dude got pregnant & conceived a kid she's nuts about. she NO WAI wanted this earlier but now wouldnt trade her life.

now im not saying that you SHOULD want children or will EVER want them.

only that you'd better be absolutely sure before you make such a final decision in your life. better to keep your options open, you never know what's around the corner.

(and that's why i don't have any tattoos-- once it's there, you can't scrub it out).

i am ABSOLUTELY certain. i can't handle it emotionally, i can't handle it mentally, i can't handle it physically.

!@#$%! · 03.01.2008, 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Cantankerous

not 17.
i feel like i'm fucking finished right now.

i am ABSOLUTELY certain. i can't handle it emotionally, i can't handle it mentally, i can't handle it physically.

of course, you're fucking 17. what did you expect?

Cantankerous · 03.01.2008, 08:32 PM

a) no, i'm not.
b) i mean that i have a lot of PROBLEMS, okay? i have inherent mental health issues that are never going to go away and i accept that.

Savage Clone · 03.01.2008, 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!

only that you'd better be absolutely sure before you make such a final decision in your life. better to keep your options open, you never know what's around the corner.

(and that's why i don't have any tattoos-- once it's there, you can't scrub it out).

On the other hand, if you think hard about decisions, you usually won't regret them.
I regret neither my tattoos nor my vasectomy.
I waited until the ripe age of 23 for the vasectomy though.

Cantankerous · 03.01.2008, 08:34 PM

i have thought about this for the last ten years! FOR FUCKS SAKE>

!@#$%! · 03.01.2008, 08:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Cantankerous

a) no, i'm not.
b) i mean that i have a lot of PROBLEMS, okay? i have inherent mental health issues that are never going to go away and i accept that.

grumble grumble.

see PM.

✌➬ · 03.01.2008, 08:48 PM

I like you !@#$%! but why can't you accept cantanky's stand on this issue?

!@#$%! · 03.01.2008, 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by ✌➬

I like you !@#$%! but why can't you accept cantanky's stand on this issue?

i came back to look at the movie times

did you see i wrote her a PM?

yeah. means private.

thanks.

✌➬ · 03.01.2008, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!

i came back to look at the movie times

did you see i wrote her a PM?

yeah. means private.

thanks.

Whateva's. Well have a good night, I am home alone and time to study. Night.

Cantankerous · 03.01.2008, 08:58 PM

everyone thinks i'll change my mind. fuck you.
i'll get back to you when i'm 30 and childless.

Savage Clone · 03.01.2008, 09:13 PM

37.5 and blissfully child-free.
These decisions are individual.

✌➬ · 03.01.2008, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Savage Clone

37.5 and blissfully child-free.
These decisions are individual.

Yes, I used to want to have kids. And i have realized that I prefer to have more money than kids. It sounds egotistical, but it is the truth. Also, I rather not deal with that, all the drama they bring.

Savage Clone · 03.01.2008, 09:17 PM

I don't have money either, but at least I am enjoying a barren, sterile existence that ends when I die.

✌➬ · 03.01.2008, 09:20 PM

Well you are a cliché, you know the starving artist.

Savage Clone · 03.01.2008, 09:22 PM

Do I look like I starve myself?

✌➬ · 03.01.2008, 09:23 PM

Yes, there is not enough fat around your face. It looks flat.

Rob Instigator · 03.03.2008, 01:54 PM

i am ass kickin

tuirns out that when Kim sings YR THE ONE! YR THE ONE

she was talking about me~!

Everyneurotic · 03.04.2008, 12:23 AM

a bit less down but still with things to do, not as pressured, though.

Cantankerous · 03.04.2008, 12:29 AM

still not well.

Inhuman · 03.04.2008, 12:36 AM

Decent. Been more constructive lately, and doing more in music. Haven't had much time to hang around here though, I'm usually gone out

03.01.2008, 08:32 PM	#43
Cantankerous invito al cielo Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: A RETIREMENT HOME Posts: 18,499	a) no, i'm not. b) i mean that i have a lot of PROBLEMS, okay? i have inherent mental health issues that are never going to go away and i accept that. __________________ RETIRED
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03.01.2008, 08:34 PM	#45
Cantankerous invito al cielo Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: A RETIREMENT HOME Posts: 18,499	i have thought about this for the last ten years! FOR FUCKS SAKE> __________________ RETIRED
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03.01.2008, 08:48 PM	#47
✌➬ invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: ιλ Posts: 5,754	I like you !@#$%! but why can't you accept cantanky's stand on this issue? __________________ We Kill Homosexuals!!!
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03.01.2008, 08:58 PM	#50
Cantankerous invito al cielo Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: A RETIREMENT HOME Posts: 18,499	everyone thinks i'll change my mind. fuck you. i'll get back to you when i'm 30 and childless. __________________ RETIRED
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03.01.2008, 09:13 PM	#51
Savage Clone invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 11,287	37.5 and blissfully child-free. These decisions are individual.
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03.01.2008, 09:17 PM	#53
Savage Clone invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 11,287	I don't have money either, but at least I am enjoying a barren, sterile existence that ends when I die.
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03.01.2008, 09:20 PM	#54
✌➬ invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: ιλ Posts: 5,754	Well you are a cliché, you know the starving artist. __________________ We Kill Homosexuals!!!
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03.01.2008, 09:22 PM	#55
Savage Clone invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 11,287	Do I look like I starve myself?
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✌➬ invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: ιλ Posts: 5,754	Yes, there is not enough fat around your face. It looks flat. __________________ We Kill Homosexuals!!!
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03.03.2008, 01:54 PM	#57
Rob Instigator invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: In the land of the Instigator Posts: 27,942	i am ass kickin tuirns out that when Kim sings YR THE ONE! YR THE ONE she was talking about me~! __________________ RXTT's Intellectual Journey - my new blog where I talk about all the books I read.
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03.04.2008, 12:23 AM	#58
Everyneurotic invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Mexico Posts: 15,713	a bit less down but still with things to do, not as pressured, though. __________________ Richard Clayderman found alive and still bland! Repo Man has all night! Photographic evidence of Monosodic's existance! New Kiddieriot shit after all! Never too late to share fave rex from the year before! David Keenan is a douchebag! Ron Asheton missed!
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03.04.2008, 12:29 AM	#59
Cantankerous invito al cielo Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: A RETIREMENT HOME Posts: 18,499	still not well. __________________ RETIRED
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03.04.2008, 12:36 AM	#60
Inhuman invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Montreal Posts: 5,807	Decent. Been more constructive lately, and doing more in music. Haven't had much time to hang around here though, I'm usually gone out __________________ Inhuman no longer dwells on here. http://about.me/robinbastien
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