how long should i wait after getting a number?

uhler · 11.03.2008, 11:52 PM

so today at work (i work at a cafe/bar) there was this cute girl sitting at the bar, so i asked the server if she came in with a guy cause i'm interested. she said, "she doesn't know, but she'll ask the bartender." she does and the bartender comes back and asks if i wanted her to make some magic happen and i said sure. so i decieed to write her a note saying if she wouldn't mind buying her a drink. i made three boxes, yes, maybe, no. she xed yes. after some convincing i went up to her and nervously introduced myself and then nervously asked for her number and she gave it to me. also, when she left she waved bye to me.

so i'm guessing that she is somewhat interested in me since she did give me her number. how long should i wait until i call her?

i never really asked for a girls number before. all my girlfriends or dates just came about by hanging out and then things happened.

atsonicpark · 11.04.2008, 12:04 AM

I'd call at 4 in the morning. If she isn't pissed, then it's true love.

Sheriff Rhys Chatham · 11.04.2008, 12:14 AM

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Originally Posted by atsonicpark

I'd call at 4 in the morning. If she isn't pissed, then it's true love.

that actually sounds quite convincing.

terriblecanyons · 11.04.2008, 12:14 AM

Haha.
Call within the next two days.
I think that's a pretty safe time estimate.

uhler · 11.04.2008, 12:21 AM

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Originally Posted by atsonicpark

I'd call at 4 in the morning. If she isn't pissed, then it's true love.

if i had the balls to do that i would just for the hell of it. knowing people here they might still be awake then.

phoenix · 11.04.2008, 12:31 AM

yeh two days max. you want to let her know you're interested, but give her a chance to get home and think about it a while.

Sheriff Rhys Chatham · 11.04.2008, 12:34 AM

Honestly I think the day after getting the number would be good.

Kegmama · 11.04.2008, 01:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Sheriff Rhys Chatham

Honestly I think the day after getting the number would be good.

^ Hell to the yeah. The next day. No more then 2 days. If 3 days passes, your time has expired. Good luck uhler!

davenotdead · 11.04.2008, 02:35 AM

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Originally Posted by atsonicpark

I'd call at 4 in the morning. If she isn't pissed, then it's true love.

i have actually kind of done this... it wasn't 4 am, but it was 1 am or so, and i had woken her up. she went to bed early because she was at work all day after not getting to bed the night before (major party where i had met her), but she wasn't pissed off

edit- and uhler, 24 hours is good.

pbradley · 11.04.2008, 03:09 AM

CALL NOW! OPERATORS ARE STANDING BY!

radarmaker · 11.04.2008, 05:57 AM

24-48 hours. No more, no less.

nicfit · 11.04.2008, 06:23 AM

Ha ha I thought this thread was about standing in line waiting for some kind of service.
Which is not the case.
Or maybe is it?
Nah, unless she gives away progressive numbers instead of phone numbers.
Call her whenever you feel like doing so, planning doesn't work at all in these scenarios coz things NEVER go as you imagined them.

pics.

11.04.2008, 06:27 AM

call her straight away and let her know that she won't be able to get rid of your calls/texts for a while. it's good to test if she's really into you big time.

Toilet & Bowels · 11.04.2008, 06:37 AM

don't do that, she'll think you're a stalker

11.04.2008, 06:40 AM

Do it and test her patience to the limit. You should also wait outside her house and hide behind a tree.

11.04.2008, 06:44 AM

also, sneak into her house and hide inside the kitchen cupboard.

atsonicpark · 11.04.2008, 07:24 AM

Stalk her.. be as creepy as humanly possible... get a restraining order put against you by her... and then STILL see her... still go around her.. get thrown in jail... and if she still is into you after a year of you sending her pictures that you took of her with holes in them, notes written in your own blood, internet tribute websites, and everything else creepy you can possibly think of doing... then it's true love.

EVOLghost · 11.04.2008, 06:18 PM

great advice from the SY boards :-D

11.04.2008, 06:23 PM

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Originally Posted by sarramkrop

also, sneak into her house and hide inside the kitchen cupboard.

hahahahaha

11.04.2008, 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by atsonicpark

Stalk her.. be as creepy as humanly possible... get a restraining order put against you by her... and then STILL see her... still go around her.. get thrown in jail... and if she still is into you after a year of you sending her pictures that you took of her with holes in them, notes written in your own blood, internet tribute websites, and everything else creepy you can possibly think of doing... then it's true love.

then you have to bump her

11.03.2008, 11:52 PM	#1
uhler invito al cielo Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Brooklyn Posts: 3,615	so today at work (i work at a cafe/bar) there was this cute girl sitting at the bar, so i asked the server if she came in with a guy cause i'm interested. she said, "she doesn't know, but she'll ask the bartender." she does and the bartender comes back and asks if i wanted her to make some magic happen and i said sure. so i decieed to write her a note saying if she wouldn't mind buying her a drink. i made three boxes, yes, maybe, no. she xed yes. after some convincing i went up to her and nervously introduced myself and then nervously asked for her number and she gave it to me. also, when she left she waved bye to me. so i'm guessing that she is somewhat interested in me since she did give me her number. how long should i wait until i call her? i never really asked for a girls number before. all my girlfriends or dates just came about by hanging out and then things happened.
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11.04.2008, 12:04 AM	#2
atsonicpark invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 28,843	I'd call at 4 in the morning. If she isn't pissed, then it's true love. __________________
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11.04.2008, 12:14 AM	#4
terriblecanyons invito al cielo Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: the land where large fuzzy dice still hang proudly like testicles from rear-view mirrors Posts: 5,949	Haha. Call within the next two days. I think that's a pretty safe time estimate.
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11.04.2008, 12:31 AM	#6
phoenix invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: the future where it's hot and dark Posts: 5,926	yeh two days max. you want to let her know you're interested, but give her a chance to get home and think about it a while. __________________ tiny and lost.
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11.04.2008, 12:34 AM	#7
Sheriff Rhys Chatham invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: New England. Posts: 4,027	Honestly I think the day after getting the number would be good. __________________ My Music(grunge rock) A part of this blue shit since June 24th, 2004
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11.04.2008, 03:09 AM	#10
pbradley invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: SoKo Posts: 10,621	CALL NOW! OPERATORS ARE STANDING BY!
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11.04.2008, 05:57 AM	#11
radarmaker the end of the ugly Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 1,122	24-48 hours. No more, no less.
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11.04.2008, 06:23 AM	#12
nicfit invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: banana boat Posts: 15,570	Ha ha I thought this thread was about standing in line waiting for some kind of service. Which is not the case. Or maybe is it? Nah, unless she gives away progressive numbers instead of phone numbers. Call her whenever you feel like doing so, planning doesn't work at all in these scenarios coz things NEVER go as you imagined them. pics. __________________ 11:11 11-11-11 I Ascended.
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11.04.2008, 06:27 AM	#13
sarramkrop Posts: n/a	call her straight away and let her know that she won't be able to get rid of your calls/texts for a while. it's good to test if she's really into you big time.
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11.04.2008, 06:37 AM	#14
Toilet & Bowels invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Northern Europe Posts: 12,268	don't do that, she'll think you're a stalker
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11.04.2008, 06:40 AM	#15
sarramkrop Posts: n/a	Do it and test her patience to the limit. You should also wait outside her house and hide behind a tree.
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11.04.2008, 06:44 AM	#16
sarramkrop Posts: n/a	also, sneak into her house and hide inside the kitchen cupboard.
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11.04.2008, 07:24 AM	#17
atsonicpark invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 28,843	Stalk her.. be as creepy as humanly possible... get a restraining order put against you by her... and then STILL see her... still go around her.. get thrown in jail... and if she still is into you after a year of you sending her pictures that you took of her with holes in them, notes written in your own blood, internet tribute websites, and everything else creepy you can possibly think of doing... then it's true love. __________________
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11.04.2008, 06:18 PM	#18
EVOLghost invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: cybatraz! Posts: 11,537	great advice from the SY boards :-D
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