A thread where you can write why are you sad

NYCgaf16 · 01.16.2020, 02:47 PM

Why are you sad? Why were you sad? What made you sad? Why are you not pissed about it? Chris pls dont delete this thread. Anyways... for example i was sad because the girl that i really liked turned out to be lesbian

!@#$%! · 01.16.2020, 03:05 PM

lol relax he’s not gonna delete your thread

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and you can still like her, just as friends, which is in many ways is better than the overdramatic complications and inevitable disasters of teenage romance

choc e-Claire · 01.16.2020, 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by NYCgaf16

i was sad because the girl that i really liked turned out to be lesbian

Rivers Cuomo, is that you?

ngl, that's happened to me before. It sucks, but at least you know that it's not that you suck - you're just not compatible.

Regardless: most of my sadness is based around gender identity, gender dysphoria, gender hatred. Trying to find where I fit.

NYCgaf16 · 01.17.2020, 07:30 AM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!

lol relax he’s not gonna delete your thread

It was just a joke

!@#$%! · 01.17.2020, 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by NYCgaf16

It was just a joke

lololol yeah it sounded dumb hahaha

anyway what about your unattainable princess? made up too? or furrealz?

NYCgaf16 · 01.17.2020, 01:05 PM

furrealz

i think we can stay friends cuz like she also drinks alcohol (she's 16 btw) and i don't really people that don't have 18 years and drink

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!

unattainable princess?

lolz

_slavo_ · 01.17.2020, 01:09 PM

It rains and rains
I had home office today, so I was at home the whole day, with the exception of running down to the store
I know almost nobody in this town, and then after I find some friends and they invite me out for pints, I'm too lazy to get dressed and go. Like right now exactly.
Too old for this shit.

Rob Instigator · 01.17.2020, 01:47 PM

I am sad still cuz my mom died Sept. 30 2019.

I am sad still cuz my dad died Feb. 11, 1991.

NYCgaf16 · 01.17.2020, 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Rob Instigator

I am sad still cuz my mom died Sept. 30 2019.

I am sad still cuz my dad died Feb. 11, 1991.

*gasps* oh no. my dear condolences

!@#$%! · 01.17.2020, 02:14 PM

dammit, i am getting sad by contagion.

slavo, i thought your family was with you. fuck! that sounds very lonely.

rob, i haven’t known that pain yet. damn. i have no words.

Antagon · 01.17.2020, 02:35 PM

Sorry for your loss, Rob. As with !@#$%!, words fail me. My grandfather died in October, but we didn't have much of a relationship (emotional coldness is kind of a pattern on my father's side of the family), so I didn't and still don't quite know how I feel about it, as harsh as that sounds. All I can do is wish you much strength to pull through in those trying times.

I'm somewhat sad because I feel like I'm developing feelings for someone, but I'm really not in a state to let someone into my life right now - personal demons to battle, trying to be cool with myself again before I want to extend that to someone else. Depressive episodes and increased social anxiety had been piling up towards the end of last year. It's gotten better, but I still feel some of the aftershocks from time to time. And I just don't want to accidently impose my current emotional bullshit on someone I seem to be fond of.

Rob Instigator · 01.17.2020, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!

dammit, i am getting sad by contagion.

slavo, i thought your family was with you. fuck! that sounds very lonely.

rob, i haven’t known that pain yet. damn. i have no words.

As the oldest of my large group of close friends, I did everything first, University, marriage, LSD, divorce, losing my dad and mom, etc. Only thing they beat me to was having babies (I cant)

It is tough to be the first one going through everything, but it is also hard to see everyone else going through things I already dealt with, and seeing how hard it will be for them.

I currently have two separate friends who have parents with brain cancer. Life is tough

!@#$%! · 01.17.2020, 03:29 PM

damn...

ilduclo · 01.17.2020, 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Rob Instigator

I am sad still cuz my mom died Sept. 30 2019.

I am sad still cuz my dad died Feb. 11, 1991.

my ma, who died in 2005, used to say, "you're always a child until you're an orphan"

Severian · 01.18.2020, 10:35 AM

I don’t know, but I imagine it has something to do with the futility of everything and how empty my life is of things other than work and how afraid of love I seem to be.

Antagon · 01.18.2020, 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Severian

and how afraid of love I seem to be.

Struck a chord. Yeah, it can be a daunting concept to wrap your head around sometimes.

Or as Judee used to sing:

It seems like everyone's so afraid of emotion
'Cause they can't bear the pain
But the deeper sorrow carves in the heart of your being
The more joy you can contain

Esoteric themes and death references notwithstanding, it's a great line that can be read in many different ways (and a great song at that).

!@#$%! · 01.18.2020, 10:31 PM

this thread is a huge downer for me, it makes me sad to see all this pain. i wish i could do something for you guys. i don’t know what.

Max Bryant · 03.13.2020, 01:30 PM

My social media addiction makes me sad every day

But thanks to cbd syrup I've got a chance to beat this addiction.

!@#$%! · 03.13.2020, 04:12 PM

im sad that i no longer know if new members are for real or just copywriters fishing for SEO links

it’s fucked up, the broken trust

Skuj · 03.13.2020, 04:27 PM

I'm sad because:

-millions of people think that Trump is a good POTUS.
-2020 seems to be a very fucked up year, worldwide.
-I'm getting divorced, at the age of 58, with an 11 year old son.

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Rob Instigator invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: In the land of the Instigator Posts: 27,969	I am sad still cuz my mom died Sept. 30 2019. I am sad still cuz my dad died Feb. 11, 1991. __________________ RXTT's Intellectual Journey - my new blog where I talk about all the books I read.
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!@#$%! invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: mars attacks Posts: 42,560	dammit, i am getting sad by contagion. slavo, i thought your family was with you. fuck! that sounds very lonely. rob, i haven’t known that pain yet. damn. i have no words.
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Antagon invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Vienna, Austria Posts: 2,545	Sorry for your loss, Rob. As with !@#$%!, words fail me. My grandfather died in October, but we didn't have much of a relationship (emotional coldness is kind of a pattern on my father's side of the family), so I didn't and still don't quite know how I feel about it, as harsh as that sounds. All I can do is wish you much strength to pull through in those trying times. I'm somewhat sad because I feel like I'm developing feelings for someone, but I'm really not in a state to let someone into my life right now - personal demons to battle, trying to be cool with myself again before I want to extend that to someone else. Depressive episodes and increased social anxiety had been piling up towards the end of last year. It's gotten better, but I still feel some of the aftershocks from time to time. And I just don't want to accidently impose my current emotional bullshit on someone I seem to be fond of. __________________
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!@#$%! invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: mars attacks Posts: 42,560	damn...
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Severian invito al cielo Join Date: Feb 2012 Posts: 11,744	I don’t know, but I imagine it has something to do with the futility of everything and how empty my life is of things other than work and how afraid of love I seem to be.
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!@#$%! invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: mars attacks Posts: 42,560	this thread is a huge downer for me, it makes me sad to see all this pain. i wish i could do something for you guys. i don’t know what.
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Max Bryant empty page Join Date: Mar 2020 Location: Louisiana, US Posts: 1	My social media addiction makes me sad every day But thanks to cbd syrup I've got a chance to beat this addiction.
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!@#$%! invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: mars attacks Posts: 42,560	im sad that i no longer know if new members are for real or just copywriters fishing for SEO links it’s fucked up, the broken trust
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Skuj invito al cielo Join Date: May 2009 Location: See My Top 10. Posts: 2,690	I'm sad because: -millions of people think that Trump is a good POTUS. -2020 seems to be a very fucked up year, worldwide. -I'm getting divorced, at the age of 58, with an 11 year old son. __________________ Fuckit.
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