This is a great point! I think I do that. I give a concise answer that sums up what I think, up front. The problem comes when I am asked or expected to elaborate. I want to be able to have a normal conversation, where I don't feel compelled to talk a mile a minute.
There are definite advantages to slowing down. Enunciation improves. One sounds more thoughtful, even if one is not (ever notice how Garrison Keillor can sound incredibly smart without really saying anything). And I think it is extremely useful in keep things from spinning up, from getting heated or emotional.
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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
from what i'm reading i think you can retain your speed but just avoid all the beating around the bush.
-"what do you think?"
-"it's shit and it won't work"
or
-"what do you think?"
-"i'll do it but i need a raise"
ha ha ha
srsly if you must keep them waiting then deliver the goods upfront. no preface.
much like the rules of journalistic writing no? headline first, main stuff next, details later
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