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tactful ways to improve yr sex life
when yr partner is continually jacking off before you come to bed. :mad:
and you haven't had real sex more than once in the past few weeks. It's starting to get annoying. whut do I do apart from start going to therapy. |
explain you want some dick.
or dump the guy and find someone willing to give you your daily dose of dick. i think communication would be the simplest way to fix things |
communication- good.
rape- better. talk sexy, jack him into ur mouth while givn oral, then rape him- best. im sorry phoenix! hope u can get laid again soon, i'd do u. |
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I do this often. I agree communication is fabulous, but I'm running out of things to say. |
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I do this sometimes. But, it wears pretty thin being the only one who is instigating sex 95% of the time. So then as much as I enjoy the sex that DOES happen, I'm also thinking about 'ffs I've had to start it again' if that makes sense. |
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There is only so many times you can pin down yr man and unf him before even that gets monotonous. I'm a girl... I need.. you know, to be ravaged. |
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ermm he has mommy issues, but it has never really affected our sexy time ( until now? if that what it is, I dunno. ) It's never been an issue because I like being a bitch/tying him up for a play sometimes as much as he enjoys that kind of thing. ermmmm when we do have sex no, there is no problems with any of that. THAT is what is annoying I guess. To me there is no reason for this BS behaviour. haha. Half the time I'm not allowed to 'go there' even when the rest of his body clearly wants it. :mad: |
"why are you jacking off before coming to bed?" would be a good question to start with.
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I want a new girlfriend. |
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it isn't before he goes to bed, he generally goes to bed first. it's while Im in the shower before I get into bed, usually. "I dont know, because Im tired and I dont feel like sex" phoenix: "..." "fine, we can still have sex, come on" phoenix: "no, that's stupid! there is no point now. :mad:" In any case.. the 'we can still have sex now' is never real sex, it's phoenix doing all the work and not much fun. |
I dunno how to describe that behaviour. Lazy? Conceited?
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pheonix, how is the non-sex life with your man??
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sounds like he doesn't want sex if he's jerking off before getting into bed.
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not an obsessive amount, or even that much really. I probably watch just as much as he does. I guess, maybe it is a phase. I maintain that my vag/accessories are far more interesting that his dick. Quote:
It IS worse when he is working, but he's not working right now.. So.. tired is really something that shouldn't come into it. He doesn't smoke. He should probably get out and exercise more, but he isn't THAT freaking unfit. |
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becoming frustrating! |
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maybbe it would be wise to work on that? maybe the sex problem would just dissolve. |
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This is a/the problem. |
I'm sure he would love to know that you are talking about his masturbation to complete strangers on the internet.
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no I mean, frustrating because of the sex part. our non sex relationship is the same as ever. at the moment probably a little better. |
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I'm sure someone else out there on the internet would love your less than helpful typing. It isn't as if I'm posting photos. |
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I guess. yr right. :( |
he is gay.
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it really would not bother me at all if it were just not as one sided as it is at the moment. There is not a lot of sex, he will jerk off before I get to bed, and then I am not allowed to do the same once I get to bed because he wants to sleep. Quote:
that sucks. Sorry to hear it :( Hope you either can sort it out soon and get back together, or that things work out okay moving on. |
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we're both bi. It isn't an issue. |
My biggest stress is that he is cheating again : /
IDK. |
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I've tried, but I can't get into it because he keeps telling me off and gets angry. :( |
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I've asked, but he says no. He never said yes last time until I found out though. :rolleyes: A massive part of it is probably *my* problem for sticking around in the first place. But now I am where I am, and it is comfortable. The relationship is comfortable. I've asked, he says no. There is no point going off like a mental case crazy lady trying to prove otherwise. I'd feel like a complete bitch for leaving the relationship on the assumption only that he is doing something wrong. |
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hey now, don't waste all yr angst in this thread. Save some for the others.
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It's sad that you have to assume my defense of your boyfriend's privacy is driven by angst. Is that how you deal with information you don't want to hear? Conjured psychology?
If anything, I'm only speaking from what I would be thinking in his shoes. I identify with his sexual apathy, not much angst there. |
inb4 every dude on the board going into details about how often they choke the bishop
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Fine, anything else I would say would only involve myself more.
Carry on. |
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is the misspell ironic or ignorant? i've noticed you use it often. |
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oh? well, if anything, him reading me writing about this would probably turn him the fuck on. So yr tying on the wrong shoes if you think yr judging from his perspective. Quote:
I'm just used to you fairly often assraping my thread/post content. In fact, I knew you would reply with something along the lines of what you wrote. I really don't mind, I'm just giving you what you want, a reaction, right? |
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haha. I really don't want to know that, I was more interested in situation experience or whatever. I'd +rep sway for his help but I've done it too recently. |
looks like it's time to trade in for a new model
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he's already six months younger than I am
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i mean get a new man
if you're not getting what you want from someone get it from somewhere else. |
Satan speaks the truth. If I were you I would've said "look, give me what I want or this relationship is in the trash".
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I don't cheat and I am patient enough to not say that ^
I just want to find a solution, not to break up with the guy. |
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