My Boyfriend and I Broke Up (Sort Of)
 

Yeah, we talked yesterday, and we broke up, after a complete meltdown I had. I told him I was attracted to some other guy. I never seen him so hurt, and I think I should have kept my mouth shut. Oh I feel elated yet sad. But we are still friends with benefits or whatever you want to call it. Ah I don't know what to feel.

Well, at least you were honest with him. Hope you're feeling OK.

That kind of sucks. Hang in there, mate.

Yeah it will be fine, on saturday we are going to the movies. We still had sex yesterday after we talked. I am just going through so much, I need to figure out what I am really feeling right now.

SynthethicalY is gay?

Shhhh!!!!

"Honey, he's not just gay, he's ECSTATIC. Ow!"

sorry, i keep thinking synthetic is a women. sorry about that

Originally Posted by jico.
SynthethicalY is gay?


Yeah jico I don't want to know.

Well, things will work themselves out and it was very good of you to be honest with him.

My advice, for what its worth is keep talking. Its the most important thing.

Yeah, I think we would make better friends, than a couple. But my mind is in such a detrimental state that I don't know what's up or down.

shhhh!!!!
i'm just joking...

Gayer than big gay al

i dont believe in you. i demand a thread and a poll to see who wins.

i was going to say that it sucks and everything but, you seem to be with the guy still; so the only change is you're going to be allowed to see other guys? weird.

anyway, yeah, i think i know how it feels, this sadness you feel that things will not be the way they were but believe me, from your recent posts, it's for the best that you break up and, well, you might find him a better friend than a boyfriend and you might find someone to bring you more happiness.

Yeah every-e this whole weekend has been weird for me. But yeah he did thank me for being honest with him. I don't really know what our relationship is yet, I mean to define it. All I know is I don't want a boyfriend right now. Just a friend. And he is there, we both realized we don't want to part from each others lives.

best of lucks, man

Speaking from personal experience, going from a relationship to friends with benefits never works out. Or at least that's how it was with me in a straight relationship. My best friend (who is gay) seems to have quite a few former lovers that are now his friends with benefits.

I applaud you for being honest with him Synth... but the fact that you were attracted to another man shouldn't have ended things. Me and my ex weren't afraid to talk about our "desires" with one another. We never acted upon them, but we still talked. Anyway, that's neither here nor there.

You're young... I'm sure you'll go through a few more than this one. And I'm not speaking as someone who is a slut but someone who is practical. It's VERY rare for anyone under 25 to find a meaningful lifelong relationship, it certainly happens, but not frequently.

Don't be so down. Have fun, be safe, be happy.

hope it all works out for you Synth-ethical-Y.

you've seemed kind of down lately, maybe this will help solve that (even though it might hurt right now).

best wishes.

so you told your b friend that you are attracted to another guy and wonder why your breaking up.

It was not posed
It messed me up
It was her recording herself
Whisper.
"What is it worth to me?"
Thinking one thought
The advice to be okay.
Break into childrens hospital
Cry it out.
"Dont fuck with me, dont fuck with me"

And I broke up
without a note
And I broke up
Its a mess
Go go go go go
Away from here.
Food color poured out all over her shorts mixed with
I`ll make a gate you cannot pass
Taped to there loinclothes
A sign that says "Why us?"
Flip yourself off but erase it when someone sees you.
"This, this is the worst vacation ever, I am going to cut open your
forehead with a roofing shingle, Ohh Ohh"

And I broke up
without a note
And I broke up
And I broke up
behind your house
And I broke up

No I am not wondering why we are breaking up.

thanks guys, we'll we just think we should not call ourselves a couple, not until I sort things out. He is always busy, I am always busy. Our schedules are never the same. We hardly see each other.

Probably a good thing, though your delivery method sounds like it was quite blunt. Sometimes though it's better to do a clean break than beating around the dubya. "It's not you, it's me!"

That's not my style, I don't like to beat around the bush, I like saying it how it is. Probably dumb, but it actually is better in my opinion. Anyways we are just friends for now.

go out with this new guy and stop moaning about it.

The problem is the new guy has a boyfriend, ah whatever, I am getting over it.

every now and then i feel compelled to look in your direction and ask--

what crawled up your ass and died? :confused:

--

unless im reading your tone wrong...

whats wrong? your mail order wife giving you grief because you keep crying yourself to sleep?

i can see it was probably a big rat, blatherskite junior.

there there sweetie they cant get you now.

haha its funny you get annoyed at my posts when i dont even look at yours.

i get annoyed at your treatment of synthetically. just because you're having your period it doesn't give you a free pass to be an ass.

why don't you go and pick on someone face to face? afraid of the consequences?

ohoy

for a person who wants the board to be asshole free and lacking in bad feeling your very poor at following your own advice. now go wipe your eyes, call your mum and come back when your ready to say sorry. must i baby you always?

whatever little man, we took the conversation to PM, you can rant at will.

shh now i can tuck you in later when you have your afternoon nap.

maybe if you want to insult me then you should do it by pm instead.
when i sent you one and asked what the problem was you said there wasnt/isnt one when clearly there is. and seeing as you are the one who insults at will then as stated before, follow your own advice.

it must be hard being you but i guess there are always people who cant get past things.

Stop fighting please. All it takes is for one of you to stop replying.

youre very mistaken. i have no PErSONAL problem with you, i.e., i dont think that everything you post is crap or that you are on every occasion an ass.

i do have a problem with your asinine posts inths particular thread, and i asked if i was misreading your tone.

dont know if you may have noticed, but i do answer your threads asking for computer help. if i had a PERSONAL problem with you i wouldn't waste my time.

but in this thread you were an ass. referring to my wife as "mail order wife" has to be the low point of your day. i'm sure you can do better?

haha wtf is going on? quem mandou pôsetes?

damn kids, go back to work.