how long should i wait after getting a number?
 

so today at work (i work at a cafe/bar) there was this cute girl sitting at the bar, so i asked the server if she came in with a guy cause i'm interested. she said, "she doesn't know, but she'll ask the bartender." she does and the bartender comes back and asks if i wanted her to make some magic happen and i said sure. so i decieed to write her a note saying if she wouldn't mind buying her a drink. i made three boxes, yes, maybe, no. she xed yes. after some convincing i went up to her and nervously introduced myself and then nervously asked for her number and she gave it to me. also, when she left she waved bye to me.

so i'm guessing that she is somewhat interested in me since she did give me her number. how long should i wait until i call her?

i never really asked for a girls number before. all my girlfriends or dates just came about by hanging out and then things happened.

I'd call at 4 in the morning. If she isn't pissed, then it's true love.

that actually sounds quite convincing.

Haha.
Call within the next two days.
I think that's a pretty safe time estimate.

if i had the balls to do that i would just for the hell of it. knowing people here they might still be awake then.

yeh two days max. you want to let her know you're interested, but give her a chance to get home and think about it a while.

Honestly I think the day after getting the number would be good.

^ Hell to the yeah. The next day. No more then 2 days. If 3 days passes, your time has expired. Good luck uhler!

i have actually kind of done this... it wasn't 4 am, but it was 1 am or so, and i had woken her up. she went to bed early because she was at work all day after not getting to bed the night before (major party where i had met her), but she wasn't pissed off :cool:

edit- and uhler, 24 hours is good.

24-48 hours. No more, no less.

Ha ha I thought this thread was about standing in line waiting for some kind of service.
Which is not the case.
Or maybe is it?
Nah, unless she gives away progressive numbers instead of phone numbers.
Call her whenever you feel like doing so, planning doesn't work at all in these scenarios coz things NEVER go as you imagined them.

pics.

call her straight away and let her know that she won't be able to get rid of your calls/texts for a while. it's good to test if she's really into you big time.

don't do that, she'll think you're a stalker

Do it and test her patience to the limit. You should also wait outside her house and hide behind a tree.

also, sneak into her house and hide inside the kitchen cupboard.

Stalk her.. be as creepy as humanly possible... get a restraining order put against you by her... and then STILL see her... still go around her.. get thrown in jail... and if she still is into you after a year of you sending her pictures that you took of her with holes in them, notes written in your own blood, internet tribute websites, and everything else creepy you can possibly think of doing... then it's true love.

great advice from the SY boards :-D

hahahahaha

then you have to bump her