do you remember the thread ive posted a while ago regarding those two women? the one Ive posted a picture about is back after 1/2 year. and its starting again, she is stealing my heart for the second time. I dont want that it happens I am going insane, cause I really was over her and....argh

Sorry to hear that man.

Ah man, that's sounds pretty tough. I take it that you're in regular touch and stuff? You obviously have a lot of feelings for her, and simply being platonic friends might not be enough, if you know what I mean. Has she given you signs that she's definitely interested in you?

it not like my heart is broken or something, at least I told her a few months ago that I hate liars, not directly but I thought she understand that I was referring to her. and after that the connection went down, cause she was a few hundred miles away for one semester. now she is back I ignored her, and the second time she was waving over...why the hell? I gave her the chance to ignore me too. it could have been like never anything happened.

thats the totally twisted part. I got a big crush on her 8 months ago. and she knew that. but she got a boyfriend back then. but despite her boyfriend she hold contact with me over two months and over 60 pretty long messages over the web. and she declines 2 initations bout coffee etc. after these messages she invited me for a coffee in the city she was living back then cause I was there for some hours. but it didnt happened. then there was this accident blablabla she told a friend of hers that I might stalk her, which was a lie, I think because her friend got a crush on me, which is definately true. after that I shutted down the connection which was easy over the web. but now shes back and I see her every day, and I start to totally getting insane, especially after her reactions. maybe I am overinterpreting

mmmm
shitty


Adam Cooley would say "More luuuuuuube"
and i think he's right

the problem is I really dont know what to think about it...
is it positive/negative or what?
I am totally confused

^^^This is going to be a difficult one for sure - if you feel that she is really, really interested in you, then do you think that you could approach her directly about this? There's the other thing where she might just end messing you around again, which would be really hurtful to you.

I wish I could think of something better to say to you, al shab. All I can say is I hope that everything works out well for you one way and the other, and take care of yourself in this situation :)

Is it not possible for you to just go and talk to her and ask her whatthe deal is?
like.
"Hi i've been confused with the messages and the misunderstandings and shit.
Do you still have a boyfriend?
Do you like me?
Do you wanna go for coffee?




Do you wanna have sex with me?"

If she answers NO to sex, then just forget her.

thanks melly.

the thing is where we were writing about everything was a situation where she knew that I know of her boyfriend, and I am not that kind of guy that tries everything I can talk to women without trying to push them for a date :)
and I dont think she is that shitty, I really dont think that! its just confusing as hell and I am sure it wouldnt be that tough if that woman wouldnt be the one with the most hilarious impact on me since years

people from new york:
Why do you ask me stupid shit like, "How can you possibly eat a bagel outside of New York?" Are you unaware that the bagel is a proper form of sustenance in many other states and some of us don't live in New York but still need some sort of apparatus to put a fuckton of cream cheese on?

hahaha
if it would be that simple I would have already done it almost that way

ok forget the sex part then.
make it simple then.

like a "yes or no?"

3000 posts :) :) :)

Congratulations, SYRFox!

yeaaaaaaaah! congrats! you're less than 1/3 as cool as me! :p

oh, hi melly!
I forgot to reply to your salute this morning, I'm quite well, thanks, a bit busy and mind-burned, not much time to post/read everything like a few weeks ago but it's all good.

Good to hear, signor nicfit! Like yer most recent avatar, by the way.

Gnagnagnagna :p

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