I know....I know :(

As I said, I've sorta let my sexual nature slide out of priority in a compromise to keep a tight but sexless relationship. I think I'm really feeling the lack though, that it really is important and that I shouldnt have to compromise my own identity and life for the sake of a relationship.

Pm's cleared, yo.

what are ou talkin' aboot. pot makes everything better.

another excellent observation. I'm impressed here it was I thought you were just hilarious but you've shown a tender intelligent side as well. Big ups

no, no it doesn't. :(

I sincerely hope this thread has been a joke, because if not, Lord Have His Mercy, I feel compassionately anxious for some of y'all not living out all the aspects of your lives to the fullness there-of, and its a shame to be deprived. I might not be one to talk, the cobwebs on my dick have become encrusted, but I've had my fun enough times to be able to enjoy the breathing space.

I hope y'all all get these things sorted out, its a lot of fun and good for the heart, body and soul.

Were you volunteering your heart, body and soul to my pussy mission endeavors ?

Sorry, didnt mean to get so aggressive, its just that how you talk sometimes gets me all riled up.

I'm surprised this hasn't been mentioned: have you tried porn?

Dunno how you feel about the subject but that may be something to try. Are you more visual in other aspects of your life?

That's the whole deal with men and porn--men are stimulated more visually than women. But, there are some women who are the same in this respect.


Oh, and turn the sound down and play sonic yute

yeah and if porn grosses you out you could try a good old ffashioned erotic story

literotica.com is good

Sure, I've been a fiend to the pr0n. Sometimes it's great, other times its chilled by the awareness of it just being a means to an end (which contradicts Woman's Orgasm Tips #2, 6, 99, 263 and 882.)

Lucy, many thanks for that link. I LOVE that shit. I had a friend that brought me there some time ago but had completely forgot. It's so good, like a cumshot to the brain.

Not that I'm cumming any better. That site just helped the time-wastage issue that I didnt mention, so thanks.

you swore that you would never tell. :o

I'm a firm believer that sex...good sex...truly lies in one's own head. If I'm miserable or carrying a lot of stress/emotional baggage, I'm barely able to get it up...esp. these days. At 19 I could fuck and it would relieve tension...doesn't work like that anymore. I've got to be mentally clear and at least in a relatively good mood to even be able to function on a sexual level.

+ heavy drinking, at least on my end, def. doesn't help matters.

An update, for anyone interested...

I hear ya, sway. Good mental health = good sexual response, at least for me, at this point in my life.

Amerikangod, you still havent fulfilled your promises of cumming straight into my brain. I'm waiiiitiiing :)

SO. In short, I started taking head meds when I probably should have been on them a decade ago, cut off a dead relationship (we are now friends, like we should have been for years now, fuck) and am brewing something up with someone who shares a mutual intense multi-layered connection, my sex drive has skyrocketed, my pleasure for life has skyrocketed, I'm experiencing feelings in GENERAL with such clarity and focus that its like a sudden burst of fireworks in my brain at midnight. I cant be with this person yet, but I bought an amazing vibrator and have been having some of the best orgasms ever, I feel feminine for once and take care of myself and wear pretty dresses, my positivity just radiates from me and people respond back to me, everything just feels so good. Even in the turmoil of this difficult breakup, I feel like I'm being guided by a light shining on the fact that it was all meant to come down to this, that its the best thing for both of us, we will become stronger for it and so it really hasnt been so bad (as almost 10 years gone could have been).

Thanks again for all your suggestions and secrets !

excellent!

i want this.

what meds should i take? i need a vibrator too.

i want to feel feminine right now.

inb4 "pics plz"

HAHA! Oh, how I laaaauuuuughed !

nice!!! go girl pleasure.