I should refer you to my ex. I gotta warn you though, she used to be suicidal, and has terrible mood swings either due to her being on the pill or being on anti-depressants. When I dated her, she was trying to get off one prescription because she was addicted to it and I think she was getting on another one. Plus she's been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder.

My half-assed theory:

A lot of chicks adopt this persona of being 'troubled' and 'complex' because it makes them seem vulnerable and intriguing. The chick's M.O. seems to be to keep guys an arm's length away, keeping him interested, because it's all about the thrill of the chase, isn't it? Things get too real, they've lost their mystique, and their fun is over.

I don't mean to generalize, but from my experience of being a chick and therefore having the 'inside track,' chicks, in relationships, can be extremely selfish, manipulative, deceiving, patronizing, and shallow.

If I were a guy, I'd totally go gay.

If I were a chick, I'd totally go lesbian.

I've been with the same girl for over 18 years though; I have no "game" and can offer no dating advice.
Were I single, I think I would stay single for a long time because I simply would not approach women.

It's funny you should say that, Savage, because in my case, I've been with the same girl for over 18 years though; I have no "game" and can offer no dating advice.
Were I single, I think I would stay single for a long time because I simply would not approach women.

Funny world!

guess you get tired of spanking the monkey...

Hip Priest:
This was the year when we passed the "over half our lives" mark. We got together at 17!

Erm..yeah. More or less the same for us too. I'll be 35 in a month and my special ladyfriend was 36 in December. She's 16 months older.

i think truncated has hit the nail on the head in respect to some girls. There does seem to be a set of girls out there who think that a collection of problems is some kind of substitute for a personality. i understand that some folk, men and women both, have problems of one kind or another but i usually find that those who define themselves by their particular affliction are shallow and boring.

Well, maybe all I needed was the support of my fellow SY fans. Hopefully I'm good looking enough to start seeing screamingskull. I saw her photo & to be honest, she's very beautiful. Thank you for the support screamingskull.

a girl?
 

rock on, marley!!! you've got my support. don't worry, you've got all life to find a girl, just don't rush it and stay calm.

Thanks for the support.

Sonic Life

no worries.
if you feel like needing an advice or so, just holla.


fck it, i'm in a different sorta situation. I've had my lady for 4 years now, but in the past weeks I start feeling like I care for a different girl who's been my friend since childhood (and I always found her damn attractive) more than I probably should. and it gets me really confused.

you know, I just wanted to make the point that having a girlfriend doesn't necessarily mean being endlessly happy and problem-free.

True. It seemed like when me & my ex were together, we just argued. Of course, I would always wanted to hang out w/ my friends, & she always wanted us to be alone & talk. Maybe I'll learn next time.

don`t give up.................

marleypumpkin... you should go silent! chicks dig that...


has always worked for me... haha

I think you hit the nail on the head. I wouldn't really go gay though. I'd hate to have to wade through all the gay poseurs to find a good gay guy. Plus, I'm not really into butt sex or putting penises in my mouth, I don't think most guys would like a relationship of one way blowjobs and 2 way handjobs. Plus men don't give me boners.

Maybe you should try to sound less desperate. trust me, it's a HUGE turnoff! You need to talk to girls like you're just making friends, but you don't care, kool thing. Then, she'll think you're hard to get and she'll want you more.
Bottom line: NEVER BE DESPERATE OR IMPATIENT. GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT...

I'm completely patient and undesperate. Thats my problem. If I had a little bit of desperation maybe I'd try something.