haaaa haaaaa haaaaa haaaa

…

for a moment i thought it was a church or chapel (the roof shape). then i saw the couch/tv/etc. damn! it would have been great in a chapel.

That’s self-preservation, not happiness.

We are a social species, isolation doesn’t suit anybody.

true for the most part, but not universally true. there are many happy hermits. all species have mutants. diversity is a necessary requirement of natural selection.

regardless, what you want is neither this nor that-- it's distance regulation.

It suits people who would normally be social but sometime need space for themselves. People like Nefeli.
One of my colleagues often insists on cycling back home with me because he lives in an area nearby which requires us taking taking similar journeys until the road splits and we separately reach our destination. Sometimes I really enjoy that, but on occasion, like today, I felt like I needed to go home by myself and cycling offers that to me if I feel like thinking about stuff. When this happens I have to make up excuses and work out the time it takes him to leave the car park so I can leave work by myself. I still get along with him fine and like him as a person though.

if things or people dont do you good, i dont mean they harm you, but they dont do you good, then yes, call it self preservation. or whatever you like.
thing is, it was absolutely relaxing. didnt have a single bad thought about all the shit i (all of us) have to deal with. did have nightmares of course.

and i m at an age, long time now, that i can distinguish feelings from eachother; it was happiness, as i was going there, as i arrived and the first few days and i knew it wouldnt last. i m in love with that place since a child.
it was, is, a place love.
and i did chat a bit with people. i like when i m alone somewhere and i start a small talk with people i dont know. its refreshing.

i m isolated most of the day here- at home, in my city as well. i just meet with people later.

since a kid, i liked being alone. thats not loneliness or lack of social skills.
duh. i know people who cant stand being alone..how do you call that? (rhetorical).

actually i m also at a point -some time now- that i need new people.
and you know i m always up for meeting new people.
and even if you arent new, you are always fresh and i cant wait to see you next week. hehehehhehehehhe

YESYESYESYESYES!!!!

That's very weird. She did it for the kick?

That's nuts yo! Why so many bandanas!

la gatita canto anoche :P

i know people with good butts

don't take drinks from strangers

this is the funniest thing i've read all day.

and i'm sure you do.

so..pffffffffffffffff
so i think i should either isolate or move to other country.
but you know meeting new people doesnt mean good solid friendships so dunno.
i just really wanna go back to where i was last week.
didnt expect to feel that way,
(i m not wasted, so aint posting in that thread).

nope

thanks babe :cool: